Gentle sex / rough sex: which do you prefer?
Making love: romantic sex is 90% of the mood and only 10% of the execution. In order to properly prepare for a romantic meeting, it’s worth starting a couple of days in advance: kisses, gentle messages on the mobile … Tease his sensuality, not sexuality: ask for a massage, stroke his thigh in the movies — but refrain from more frank movements.
When that very night comes, take care of intimate lighting.
Are you having sex: let him know that you’re sexually explicit: put on something provocative, you can get a new haircut (or wear a wig). An outlandish appearance is a sexual trigger that excites the prefrontal cortex, the same area of the brain that is involved during sexual play.
Making love: here the tone is set by pace, and a loving kiss differs from a passionate kiss in that it is slow and unhurried. The more excited you are, the faster you do everything, but it also works in the opposite direction: if you deliberately slow down your movements, then you keep your intimacy on a spiritual, not a passionate level. In addition, with slow stimulation, nerve endings react to sensations differently. Try starting with light, gentle lip touches before moving on to deep French kisses.